Sorry for my silence these days… being terribly sick and I firmly believe cold virus are becoming more and more vicious…
hope to get back on the ground soon....
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Monday, April 2, 2012
Saturday, March 17, 2012
Chinese Parents when facing immigration
Recently, I reviewed many EB5 investor files. Each file represents a little personal story; SOF will tell financial success; personal docs will tell child-born, marriage, divorce, remarriage, or death of a family member. Of the piles of paper reviewed, often times I was mostly stroked on many levels of how Chinese parents handle their children’s immigration future even after the parents are long-time divorced; often times under the situation where the un-custodial mother/father gets remarried and is now applying US immigration through EB5 with the new men/women. 100% of the situation is that the Child’s custody (if not under the EB5 beneficiary mother/father) will be transferred to the immigrating mother/father through either civil litigation or voluntarily abjuration of custody over that Child by the not-immigrating mother/father. Regardless of how fierce the custody war over that child was when the parents were divorcing, unanimously, the child now “belongs to” that immigrating parent. No objection WHATSOEVER from the other parent…
Many times I will see court papers stating such custody transfer without ANY condition and even the non-talking parents are now agreeing on times of visiting. More often than not, I will see statement titled “no objection to XXX’s immigration with mother/father” ended with a sentence of “I will never regret give up custody …” Disregard the legality of such statement under China/US laws, such statement and the language it contains often makes me feel unappeasable sadness. When facing their children’s future (immigration in this matter), the parents choose to clean up whatever in the way to pave a better path toward what they believed is better for the child….
As I was reviewing a similar file this morning, where the court paper for custody transference is dated March 10, 2012, I can’t help but writing the above, dedicating to my client, and my parents.
Many times I will see court papers stating such custody transfer without ANY condition and even the non-talking parents are now agreeing on times of visiting. More often than not, I will see statement titled “no objection to XXX’s immigration with mother/father” ended with a sentence of “I will never regret give up custody …” Disregard the legality of such statement under China/US laws, such statement and the language it contains often makes me feel unappeasable sadness. When facing their children’s future (immigration in this matter), the parents choose to clean up whatever in the way to pave a better path toward what they believed is better for the child….
As I was reviewing a similar file this morning, where the court paper for custody transference is dated March 10, 2012, I can’t help but writing the above, dedicating to my client, and my parents.
Friday, February 17, 2012
Thursday, January 19, 2012
告别我的2011
龙年要到了。
记得小时候觉得2012年汽车都能在天上飞，变形金刚已经可以给我们做早饭了吧。在2011年岁末时的我却还是看着窗外的雪飘啊飘。
每年的这个时候，虽然身在美国却能想象到国内过年热闹的样子，记忆依然停留在孩童时代那盼望已久的新衣服，压岁钱，不上课，彻夜震耳的鞭炮。。。
我知道我是想家了。。
年底了，希望大家能和家人开心过年，吃个满足的年夜饭，在外的游子们给家人打个电话和亲人朋友聊聊天， 让龙年悄悄来临吧。
汪峰 - ”存在” MV
”是否找个借口继续苟活 或是展翅高飞保持愤怒“
记得小时候觉得2012年汽车都能在天上飞，变形金刚已经可以给我们做早饭了吧。在2011年岁末时的我却还是看着窗外的雪飘啊飘。
每年的这个时候，虽然身在美国却能想象到国内过年热闹的样子，记忆依然停留在孩童时代那盼望已久的新衣服，压岁钱，不上课，彻夜震耳的鞭炮。。。
我知道我是想家了。。
年底了，希望大家能和家人开心过年，吃个满足的年夜饭，在外的游子们给家人打个电话和亲人朋友聊聊天， 让龙年悄悄来临吧。
汪峰 - ”存在” MV
”是否找个借口继续苟活 或是展翅高飞保持愤怒“
Saturday, December 10, 2011
A Pseudoscientific Formular
Mr. Lin, Yutang - "生活的艺术“
Reality - Dreams = Animal Being
Reality + Dreams = A Heartache (usually called Idealism)
Reality + Humor = Realism (also called Conservatism)
Dreams - Humor = Fanaticism
Dreams + Humor = Fantasy
Reality + Dreams + Humor = Wisdom
Reality - Dreams = Animal Being
Reality + Dreams = A Heartache (usually called Idealism)
Reality + Humor = Realism (also called Conservatism)
Dreams - Humor = Fanaticism
Dreams + Humor = Fantasy
Reality + Dreams + Humor = Wisdom
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